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Tag Archives: hatred
Club Q
(edited to reflect new information; 11/21/22) Once again, my people have been attacked. Several members of the queer community were shot and killed at Club Q in Colorado Springs, Colorado late Saturday night. On Sunday’s Transgender Day of Remembrance, news … Continue reading
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Tagged Billy Jack Gaither, Christians, closet, Club Q, Colorado, Colorado Springs, common sense gun laws, Constitution, Dignity, equality, fear, gay, Harvey Milk, hate, hatred, leaders, LGBT, Matthew Shepard, out, politicians, Pulse Nightclub, queer, rights, safe spaces, transgender, United States, violence
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Pride (and Prejudice)
So far, this year’s Pride Month has been a bizarre microcosm of living life as a queer person in the United States, and our experience is a microcosm of minority communities in general. This month, the queer community has … Continue reading
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Tagged abortion, African-American, allies, America, Black lives matter, black trans women, bombing, Capitol, Dallas, death, Detroit, Dignity, discrimination, Donald Trump, equal rights, Equal Rights Amendment, equality, gender, Governor Tony Evers, hate groups, hatred, homophobes, human being, immigrants, Israeli, Jew, LGBT community, life, love, marginalized communities, mass shooting, minority communities, mosque, Muslim, Nazis, politcal gains, politcal losses, prejudice, pride, pride month, privileged class, progress, queer, race, racist, rainbow flag, religion, right to vote, right-wingers, rights, same-sex couples, status quo, struggle, suicidal, trans, United States, Wisconsin, women
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Not Yet Numb
Somehow, I am not yet numb. While watching a teenage girl talk about a boy in her high school class giving his life to save others, tears come into my eyes and my swallowing becomes difficult. So I realize I … Continue reading
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Tagged ABC News, ACT, Alabama, Baltimore, Baltimore Sun, bomb threats, bombings, child, copy, David Hogg, Emma Gonzalez, fear, feel, Fox News, hatred, heroes, high school, killings, life, Los Angeles Times, mass shootings, media, murder, New York Daily News, peace, politicians, school, shootings, terrorism, Texas, Yahoo Sports
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Paths to Healing Keynote Speech
At this year’s Paths to Healing conference on male survivors of child sex assault I was the keynote speaker. This is the text of the speech I delivered today. Good morning. I’d like to start by thanking Chris Taylor, who … Continue reading
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Tagged #MeToo, 9/11, A Single Bluebird, adult survivor, African-American, alcoholism, allies, altar boy, American Family Insurance, angels, anger issues, articles, arts, becoming, black man, blog, books, brotherhood, Canopy Center, casual sex, child sex abuse, child sex assault, childhoiod, Chris Taylor, class, collective spirit, color, come out, compassion, control, courage, creed, Dane County Rape Crisis Center, DEnim Day, depression, disabled, domestic abuse, drug abuse, emotions, empathy, Empty Playground, equality, essays, faith, Family Sexual Abuse Treatment, forgive, forgiveness, Friends of the State Street Family, gay man, gender, gender identity, harassment, Harvey Milk, hatred, healing, heart attack, Henry David Thoreau, Hmong, Ho-Chunk Nation, honest, hope, horror, human, human connection, human spirit, humanity, inner child, innocence, Invisible Boy, Irish-Catholic, Jesus, Journalism, journey, joy, justice, keynote speech, Latino, LGBT, Madison, male survivor, masculinity, memoir, meningitis, minority, monologues, mumps, Native American, neighbors, orientation, OutReach, Paradise, Paths to Healing, peace, perpetrator, person of color, personhood, plays, playwriting, poetry, positive energy, post traumatic stress disorder, power, promiscuity, prostitution, Proud Theater, queer, race, recovering alcoholic, reocvery, rights, scarlet fever, secrets, self-abuse, self-care, self-hatred, sex, sexual abuse, Sexual Assault Awareness Month, sexuality, shame, siblings, silence, social drinking, Solidarity with Child Abuse Victims/Survivors, sorrow, spirituality, State Capitol, straight, suffering, suicidal ideation, teach, therapy, threats, trans, trigger warning, truth, underserved communities, UNIDOS Against Domestic Violence, universal truths, Utopia, UW-EauClaire, victims, violence, Voices of Courage, Waylon Pahona, Wisconsin, Wisconsin Coalition Against Sexual Assault, writer
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At the Table
The local chapter of Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) maintains an information table at the weekly Farmers Market downtown. They have literature and brochures and typically have two volunteers sit at the table to greet people, give … Continue reading
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Tagged "F" word, "N" word, acceptance, allies, anger, bi, child, children, compassion, evangelical Christians, Farmers Market, father, fear, gay, hatred, identity, Jews, love, masculinity, minority, Muslims, parents, Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays, PFLAG, post-homophobic, post-misogynistic, post-racist, Proud Theater, public square, queer, rainbow, sexuality, straight, trans, understanding
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Open letter to Donald Trump on the Flag and Anthem
Dear Donald Trump, You may think that taking a knee during the national anthem is disrespectful to the flag and to the anthem, and it is your right to hold onto that belief. It is also your right to spew … Continue reading
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Tagged African-Americans, anti-Semite, black men, citizens, Confederate flag, disrespect, Donald Trump, equality, flag, flag code, football, for-profit prisons, freedom of speech, gerrymander, hatred, health, homophobe, industrialists, injustices, justice, kneel, leader, man-child, minorities, national anthem, oppression, power, protest, racists, right, slave, soldiers, solidarity, tweets, United States, vote, welfare
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On “Religious Freedom”
Several states have either tried or succeeded in passing bills over the last few years that are supposedly “religious freedom” bills. Many have been blocked from getting through or states have suffered boycotts and loss of business before or after passing … Continue reading
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Tagged abortion, adulterers, Americans, Andrew Jackson, atheists, Bible, Bill of Rights, bills, bisexual, Blacks, boycotts, citizens, conservative Christians, contraception, discrimination, Donald Trump, executive order, Frederick Douglass, freedom of speech, freedom of the press, gay marriage, gays, hatred, Hindus, historical facts, homosexuality, idolaters, injustice, Jesus Christ, lawsuit, lesbian, LGBT, liberty, life, Mississippi, money, murderers, Muslims, occult, pursuit of happiness, queer, religious freedom, Republican base, right-wing Christians, Sabbath, Supreme Court, theocracy, thieves, transgender, women
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Blake, Ash, and Skylar
Note: Someone reposted an article from a year ago and I didn’t notice that it said 2015 instead of 2016, which caused me to write this blog post. I have revised the post a bit due to that. Today I … Continue reading
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Tagged activist, anti-discrimination bill, Ash Haffner, bathroom bill, bigots, bisexual, Blake Brockington, Charlotte NC, Constitution of the United States, equal, gay, God, hate, hatred, law, legislators, lesbian, LGBT, Madison, minority, queer youth, queer-identified, rights, self-expression, Skylar Lee, suicide, transgender, transgender youth, Wisconsin
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(In) Justice Bradley
Earlier this week One Wisconsin Now, in a press conference with People for the American Way, released quotations from a column and two editorials written by Wisconsin Supreme Court Justice Rebecca Bradley. They were written when she was a student … Continue reading
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Tagged AIDS, anti-abortion, Bill Clinton, bullies, Capital Times, character, Constitutional issues, core values, drug addicts, election, extreme positions, forgive, hatred, impartial jurist, judge, LGBT, Marquette, moral convictions, officeholder, One Wisconsin Now, Patrick Crook, People for the American Way, Rebecca Bradley, Scott Walker, Wisconsin Supreme Court
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Bobby Lee and Me
Bobby Lee McClung has been on my mind a lot lately. I have been thinking about race and racism a lot lately. Bobby Lee came to visit my hometown in southwestern Wisconsin when I was a kid and an event … Continue reading
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Tagged affordable housing, African-American, Allens, Asian, basketball, black, Bobby Lee McClung, Catholic, Chris Long, Christian, civil rights, color, colored, confederate, Craig Manor, cultural exchange, dominant culture, Eeny meeny miny moe, European, fear, Filipino, gay, German, Hanover Illinois, hatred, ignorance, Irish, Irish-Catholic, Itta Bena Mississippi, Jewish, love, Mexican, Native American, North, other, poor, prejudice, privilege, Protestant, race, racism, Savanna Army Depot, South, southwestern Wisconsin, straight, swimming pool, wealthy, white privilege, World War II
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A Single Bluebird 