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Tag Archives: LGBT
Club Q
(edited to reflect new information; 11/21/22) Once again, my people have been attacked. Several members of the queer community were shot and killed at Club Q in Colorado Springs, Colorado late Saturday night. On Sunday’s Transgender Day of Remembrance, news … Continue reading
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Tagged Billy Jack Gaither, Christians, closet, Club Q, Colorado, Colorado Springs, common sense gun laws, Constitution, Dignity, equality, fear, gay, Harvey Milk, hate, hatred, leaders, LGBT, Matthew Shepard, out, politicians, Pulse Nightclub, queer, rights, safe spaces, transgender, United States, violence
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Donald Trump, Mike Pence, and the Dismantling of Queer Rights
During the 2016 Presidential campaign a photograph of Donald Trump holding a rainbow flag went viral. Some of those in the queer community, particularly members of the Log Cabin Republicans, thought that it showed that he was supportive of LGBT … Continue reading
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Tagged adoption agencies, AIDS, allies, ally, anti-discrimination laws, anti-gay policies, Cabinet, Census Bureau, Christian, civil rights, Civil Rights Act, closets, conservative, discrimination, Donald Trump, embassies, equal rights, equality, Equality Act, federal government, gay, gender identity, government, Health and Human Services, health facilities, HIV, homophobic, Islamophobic, Jeff Sessions, judgeships, Justice Department, LGBT, Log Cabin Republicans, love, Mike Pence, Mike Pompeo, military, misogynist, Miss Universe, pride month, queer community, racist, rainbow flag, re-election, Religious Freedom Restoration Act, right-wing, same-sex marriage, schools, self-expression, self-hating, self-identity, sex, sexuality, society, Steve Bannon, students, Supreme Court, Tom Cotton, transgender, Trump administration, White House
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Out and Proud
Almost fifty years ago, Stonewall happened. At the time, gay sex was illegal in every state. Lesbians and gays could be arrested simply for congregating in the same place, and the police would occasionally raid bars known to be gay … Continue reading
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Tagged 10% Society, American Psychiatric Association, authentic self, closeted, come out, David Clarenbach, Devil's Lake, discrimination, employment, gay rights, gay rights bill, gay sex, gays, homosexuality, housing, identity, Larry Acherman, Lee Sherman Dreyfus, lesbians, LGBT, life partner, love, Madison, Mark Prestegard, Matthew Alexander, mental illnesses, MIdwest, New York City, out, OutReach, police, proud, Proud Theater, public accomodations, queer, queerness, sexuality, social studies, Stonewall, Stonewall Inn, The Pride Society, University of Wisconsin, UW-Platteville, UW-Stevens Point, Wisconsin, Wisconsin Assembly, YMCA
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Profiles in Cowardice
On Friday, the remaining holdouts on the Brett Kavanaugh confirmation announced their intentions in the vote that is scheduled for Saturday. For those who are survivors of sexual assault, the likely vote of 51 to 49 to confirm–unless something major … Continue reading
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Tagged abuse, agenda, Arkansas, attempted rape, body language, Brett Kavanaugh, Chuck Grassley, citizens, compassion, conscience, corroborate, corrupted, cowardice, Democrats, Donald Trump, Dr. Christine Blasey Ford, drinking, drugs, elderly, empathy, false memories, FBI, fear, harassment, healing, hearing, heart attack, House, investigation, Jeff Flake, Joe Manchin, John F. Kennedy, jurist, justice, lap dog, left-wingers, LGBT, lied under oath, Lindsey Graham, Mitch McConnell, molested, money, old queen, Orrin Hatch, partisan, people of color, political cover, politics, poor, power, Presidential ambitions, Profiles in Courage, rape, Republicans, right-wing conservative, Ron Johnson, self-blame, self-hatred, Senate, sexual assault, shame, Supreme Court, survivors, Susan Collins, Tom Cotton, Utah, violence, West Virginia, Wisconsin
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Paths to Healing Keynote Speech
At this year’s Paths to Healing conference on male survivors of child sex assault I was the keynote speaker. This is the text of the speech I delivered today. Good morning. I’d like to start by thanking Chris Taylor, who … Continue reading
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Tagged #MeToo, 9/11, A Single Bluebird, adult survivor, African-American, alcoholism, allies, altar boy, American Family Insurance, angels, anger issues, articles, arts, becoming, black man, blog, books, brotherhood, Canopy Center, casual sex, child sex abuse, child sex assault, childhoiod, Chris Taylor, class, collective spirit, color, come out, compassion, control, courage, creed, Dane County Rape Crisis Center, DEnim Day, depression, disabled, domestic abuse, drug abuse, emotions, empathy, Empty Playground, equality, essays, faith, Family Sexual Abuse Treatment, forgive, forgiveness, Friends of the State Street Family, gay man, gender, gender identity, harassment, Harvey Milk, hatred, healing, heart attack, Henry David Thoreau, Hmong, Ho-Chunk Nation, honest, hope, horror, human, human connection, human spirit, humanity, inner child, innocence, Invisible Boy, Irish-Catholic, Jesus, Journalism, journey, joy, justice, keynote speech, Latino, LGBT, Madison, male survivor, masculinity, memoir, meningitis, minority, monologues, mumps, Native American, neighbors, orientation, OutReach, Paradise, Paths to Healing, peace, perpetrator, person of color, personhood, plays, playwriting, poetry, positive energy, post traumatic stress disorder, power, promiscuity, prostitution, Proud Theater, queer, race, recovering alcoholic, reocvery, rights, scarlet fever, secrets, self-abuse, self-care, self-hatred, sex, sexual abuse, Sexual Assault Awareness Month, sexuality, shame, siblings, silence, social drinking, Solidarity with Child Abuse Victims/Survivors, sorrow, spirituality, State Capitol, straight, suffering, suicidal ideation, teach, therapy, threats, trans, trigger warning, truth, underserved communities, UNIDOS Against Domestic Violence, universal truths, Utopia, UW-EauClaire, victims, violence, Voices of Courage, Waylon Pahona, Wisconsin, Wisconsin Coalition Against Sexual Assault, writer
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The Political Pendulum
Back in 2003 Wisconsin’s former governor, Lee Sherman Dreyfus, won the first-ever Courage Award from OutReach, Madison’s lesbian/gay/bisexual/transgender (LGBT) community center. It was a long overdue recognition for his signing of the nation’s first gay rights law in 1982. In … Continue reading
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Tagged American empire, Bernie Sanders, Bible, Bill Clinton, Caesar, candidate, Christian right, Christianity, church and state, Citizens United, city council, conservative Christian movement, corporate America, county board, Courage Award, Dark Ages, Democratic party, Dennis Kucinich, elections, environment, gay rights, George McGovern, God, gospel of prosperity, Isthmus, Jesus, Lee Sherman Dreyfus, left, left-wingers, LGBT, LGBT rights, liberal, Madison, media, megachurches, Mitch McConnell, money, money mandate, money-changers, nation, Oklahoma, OutReach, Paul Wellstone, political pendulum, power, Presidency, progressive, progressive party, racism, reality television, Republican party, right-wingers, Roe vs. Wade, Ronald Reagan, Roy Moore, school board, Supreme Court, Trump, unions, voters, Wisconsin, workers rights
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On “Religious Freedom”
Several states have either tried or succeeded in passing bills over the last few years that are supposedly “religious freedom” bills. Many have been blocked from getting through or states have suffered boycotts and loss of business before or after passing … Continue reading
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Tagged abortion, adulterers, Americans, Andrew Jackson, atheists, Bible, Bill of Rights, bills, bisexual, Blacks, boycotts, citizens, conservative Christians, contraception, discrimination, Donald Trump, executive order, Frederick Douglass, freedom of speech, freedom of the press, gay marriage, gays, hatred, Hindus, historical facts, homosexuality, idolaters, injustice, Jesus Christ, lawsuit, lesbian, LGBT, liberty, life, Mississippi, money, murderers, Muslims, occult, pursuit of happiness, queer, religious freedom, Republican base, right-wing Christians, Sabbath, Supreme Court, theocracy, thieves, transgender, women
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On the Pulse Nightclub Massacre
Within a couple minutes of waking up on Sunday morning several posts on Facebook had alerted me to yet another mass shooting in the United States. A moment later I saw that it had taken place at a gay nightclub … Continue reading
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Tagged Allen Schindler, Atlanta, bigotry, Billy Jack Gaither, bisexual, Brandon Teena, Capitol Square, Christian, closet, Earl Greeley, fear, gay, gay club, gender, Harvey Milk, hate, homophobic, Islamist extremist, justice, Latino night, lesbian, LGBT, life partner, love, Madison, mass shooting, Matthew Shepard, Muslim, Native American, New Orleans, Orlando, other, Otherside Lounge, place of origin, pulse, Pulse Nightclub, queer, race, religion, right-wing, sexuality, status, Superior, transgender, University of Wisconsin, Upstairs Loung, Wisconsin
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